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Hi, I'm really torn about mothers day because I think it is for a child to honor his mother (s) not for me to do it but this year she was so hurt I decided that in the future for sure I will send a card (I send cards and gifts on her bday, xmas and will on his bdays).
So that makes me doubly torn about MY sending a card on DS's behalf (since that is what I think the holiday is about) when he has denied to anyone but us and DS's birthmother that he is the father. He lives with his parents who are still being told he's NOT the father, that he was just helping out a friend who was pregnant....
So it's hard to send him things without getting into a messy family situation.
PS DH doesn't give me a mothers day card from our son....when he's old enough to make me a card etc. if he wants to he can for me and for his birth mother. And I pray by then his birthfather is more accessible because he's really a great guy in most respects! He certainly loves E.
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