I'm personally of no help, but there is a poster on our waiting thread who has BF for a while. I'll pm you her name. 
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Signed with facilitator 1/23/07  Profile completed & sent 2/07
M a t c h e d ! 8/23/07  Cameron is born 11/10/07  FINALIZED!!! 4/3/08 
Cameron is diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome 11/10/07
Life is beautiful, but it's complicated.
We barely make it.
We don't need to understand,
There are miracles, miracles.
Yeah, life is beautiful.
Our hearts, they beat and break. (Vega 4)
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