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I think this is a question best answered one situation at a time. In our situation I do believe that Castle is better off being raised by dh and myself. She is in a stable, clean home with lots of love and is being given a life filled with oppertunities that she would not have been offered had her bparents raised her. This being said, do I believe they would have not been good parents? At the time of her birth, no, I do not feel bmom would have been a good parent. Now four years later I still feel she would not be the best parent but could do it if she tried and I do believe that in the future she will be a great parent if she decided to have more children. I believe you have to look at life where you are and that it is okay to think you are meant to be your child's parent. We do not have contact with bfather so I can't say what kind of parent he would be.
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