[mommyto2guatboys]

Okay, i have pondered on asking this to the group for some time because it is a part of my son's personal story, but I need advice. My son I's paperwork says that he was born on a certain date, but after meeting the foster mom last month, almost 2 years after he has been home, she stated that that wasn't his birthday and she knows that his birthday is exactly 2 months before the date on all of his paperwork. I am really sick about this, and I have asked the foster mother a view times since we got home the date again and again and she keeps stating the same birthdate that is 2 months earlier. First I am so upset because I need to figure out my son's real birthdate for his sake and for him as he gets older, because what a big lie to have about his adoption. Second, I am upset because I don't understand why the lawyer would do this, does anyone have any ideas why they would change all of his documents to a different date? I did learn what a horrible man our lawyer was, so it really makes me wonder.
Then I ask myself, what else is a lie in his case? if they had to change the date of birth on everything, then what else happend in his adoption. Oh let me say that this is a relinquishment case not an abandonment case.So if anyone has any ideas or suggestions that I can do over time to figure out the truth please let me know. I have been thinking about this for a month now, and I am so sad and sick to my stomach about this.

Thanks,
Magen