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Bubba's bio folks always gave him a couple of dollars whenever they visited. They only gave Sissy money twice. The money lives in a box in their bedrooms.
It bothers me that they did this, but I don't feel like I could tell them to stop--they are the family, the kids are theirs, and this was the one way for them to let them know they loved them. I think the issue is mine.
That being said, maybe you could find a way to get the behavior reward portion of the program taken off. I mean, if a mom wants to give her kid some money, then she probably has the right to do it. I agree with the group, though--save it for the future.
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