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I think you worded your feelings wonderfully. Since joining this board I have learned that sometimes children are not always "better off" when adopted, but yes a majority of the time they are and for the reason you just stated .... AT THAT TIME IN THE BIRTH PARENTS LIFE IT WAS THE RIGHT THING. Placing a child for adoption doesn't mean those people are not good parents, they just wouldn't be at that particular time. I remember when my Ad was a few months old, her bfather got arrested while at home. SOmeone had to come get the bio brother that they are raising. I sat down and cried like a baby at how scared that little boy must have been and how my DD could have been sitting there waiting on CS or someone to come get her. I thanked God right then and there for knowing what was best for my little girl, and hoped that things would get better for that little boy. But the thing is , the bfather has been a wonderful father in the past and the type man he is and bmom, I know they will be again. Let yourself soak in the fact that you were MEANT TO be this childs parent.
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