[michsm]

for good behavior. Has anyone else had to deal with this? They are giving her money for being good in school and for behaving in general. I do not agree with this. Tonight she came home with $5 for behaving well in school this week even though she got written up at her after school program, which of course bmom didn't know about because she is not going to tell them the bad stuff so she gets the money.

I told her we were going to have to talk to bmom about this and am temporarily holding the money until I figure out how to handle this.

How would you all handle this? Should I just let her keep what she hasn't earned? I just don't think she should be being paid for her behavior. If bmom was buying her gifts or taking her out for dinner with this money just because I would't have an issue with this. I have a pretty good open line of communication with bmom so I know I could approach her with this. I just don't know if I am overreacting and should just let this slide.