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I'm going to second txrnr. Kakeuhl gives great advice.
You know, I have never felt like I need to be gareatful to anyone that was involved in my adoption. My firstmom gave me a start in life, what is what a mom does. My adoptive mom took care of me, also what a mom does. Heck, my adoptive mom still takes care of me, says she that just had help mowing and doing all kinds of things.
I don't think my son needs to be greatful to me for doing what I felt I had to do.
If this forum in particular hurts you, this one, the thanks for life one, don't read it. There are forums that I don't read b/c I can handle them and there is no shame in that.
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First mom to the amazing Kiddo and adopted adult.
1-4-2009 Mom and I visit Kiddo despite the bad weather. He really loved the blue mittens I made him and even helped me plan my living room. Apparently Hot Wheels wallpapper is the way to go.
2-16-2009 I got a promotion, that comes with a raise. Mom and Dad are visiting and we're going to Al's for pie to celebrate.
4-27-2009 Dad surprises me with a Lady Ugly Stick (an awesome fishing rod that is pink) and a 2nd Iowa Light Artillery Battery jacket. I'm a lucky girl!
5-30-2009 Kiddo turns five. It is hard to believe he is that old already, it seems like just yesterday he was being born. I was at peace for the first time on his birthday, what a nice feeling.
6-13&14 2009 A cannon live fire in Casper WY. We got third place and I got to see Devil's Tower for the first time, it was pretty awesome.
7-4-2009 Amelia the kitten comes to live with me and Liz. Talk about jealousy, Liz will adjust though.
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