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Aren't there a lot of things in life that are out of our control and have nothing to do with being adopted?
I am extremely grateful to my birthmom, for she made what I assume is a tough decision. She was the first one who decided I had a future, and she was going to give it to me. Without that first act, I would not have had the great life and fantastic parents I do.
This part of the site doesn't bother me in the least. There was one other option besides abortion, and that was parenting. My bmom was 14 when I was conceived, 15 when I was born. I think she made a great choice, and I only pray she does too.
Please read what kakuehl said again. She's one of the kindest, most open members I've seen here. She's a wealth of information and support and never pushy with advice. I think she was only trying to help when she said to avoid the forums that upset you. I think we all have those areas.
I hope you get some great feedback, and good luck with your journey.
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