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I think you did the right thing by telling him because the MIL was manipulating you to her own ends. She should have told him, but since she involved you, told you and then wanted you to lie to your husband, she is the one at fault. Hopefully your DH will come to understand that the MIL was using you against him and that by telling, you effectively removed her advantage and that you ARE THE HONEST ONE. Secrets kill relationships. It was obvisouly killing you. Please seek professional counseling for both of you.
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