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We had the visit yesterday. I told K on Sunday that she was going to visit her mom the next day. Of course she was excited and talked of nothing else (she had not seen her in about 3mo). I was very nervous. When her mom walked in K went over and gave her a big long hug and then K came back over and sat next to me, wrapped her arms around mine and would not let go. Her mom wanted to go outside for the visit but K did not want to go. So I asked if I should go and the cw said it was up to me, mom was nodding her head in agreement. So I get up to leave, after giving them my number, and K tries to follow me. I told her I would be back.
I had decided to give mom another school paper that K had done and it also had her hand print on it but it basicly said that I Love You. The other had a poem that I thought might make mom more upset than anything. Of course I ended up forgetting it at the house so I went to get it and take care of some other errands.
Almost 2 hours later I came back and K and her mom were outside so I waited in the car since I was early. After they went inside I followed, the worker said they were in the restroom. When K came out she came over and stood next to me. I gave her the card for her to give to her mom, she was sitting next to me at this time. We made some small talk and she asked if I had been the one to write the letter that had been sent with her to her grandmothers. I said yes. After a few minutes the worker told K it was time to tell her mom bye. So after a little coaxing she finally went to her and gave her another hug. Mom started to cry and so did I. After she let K go I reached over and gave her a hug also, she told me "thank you for taking care of my baby." I grabbed K's hand and we walked out quickly.
K would cry for her mom more times than I could count that day. And I still didn't know what to tell her. I didn't know if her mom had told her she would not see her for awhile or if K thinks that she will be seeing her again. I would just tell her I know you want to see your momma.
MommaCass
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Mom to boys Q is 10 and A is 6
15 years and waiting for my forever daughter.
9-20-06 Orientation Meeting
10-2006 Classes
11-15-06 Fingerprinting
12-22-06 1st Homestudy
1-06-07 2nd Homestudy
1-20-07 3rd Homestudy
2-14-07 Received License
2-27-07 1st placement 2 week old C; 4-13-07 gone to relatives 
4-27-07 2nd & 3rd placement 9mo M & T; 5-11-07 gone to relatives
6-8-07 4th placement 19mo T ; 8-7-07 gone to relatives  
10-26-07 changed agencies
12-12-07 5th & 6th placement 3yr K and 2 1/2yr S (not related)
12-21-07 K gone to relatives
1-04-08 7th placement 23mo D; 2-5-08 gone to adoptive home of her sisters 
3-8-08 K came back
3-19-08 S moved to another home
Last edited by mommacass : 06-03-2008 at 01:55 PM.
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