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Wow... I don't know if I can find any words adequate to respond to this. I suppose on the one hand I can see your mother's point of view. However, as a mother myself, I know I would have wanted to try to make some sort of plan with you also. I would never want to gain something with one child at the expense of another. I just recently made the decision to move out of state for education purposes and my soon to be 18 year old daughter did not want to go. I almost decided to stay because I couldn't stand being so far away from her. However, she has decided to go after all so we will never know for sure what I would have done. My children, all of them, are my life. I hope that you can find a way to have a talk with your mother and work out some of your feelings and concerns.
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