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I agree with KelleyF - I really think that someone who has never had an adopted child really *can't* understand that the love is exactly the same and just as deep as the love for a biological child. I think he blundered and was very insensitive, but I wouldn't rush into changing guardianship. I'd talk to him (both of you together) and tell him exactly what your concerns are....but I think that if he was put in the situation he would find that he really is able to love your kids as much as his own.
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