[birdeez4]

Well, over the weekend my mom told me she is moving 5 hours away to be closer to her placed daughter. She says she owes it to herself to get to know her placed daughter better and to spend more time with her 'other grandchildren'. Placed daughter is 'thrilled' that she will have 'all her parents' nearby and in her children's lives.

So that's great for them. But on a totally selfish side -- what about me? What about my child? Are we chopped liver? I guess like everything else in the relationship I'm supposed to just be happy and understanding for them.... BTW, up to this point, I would have loved to have a relationship with my placed/bsis; she was the one who didn't want one with me.

I'm so totally lost about this. I don't know what to do or how to react or how to tell my child that his grandmother has decided to leave town. I'm incredibly hurt...