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Congratulations on your son's adoption and I pray you can put aside your negative feelings and just enjoy being a mom again, and remember their is a mom out thier that has lost her son and is probably grieving right now.
thank you mommyplus--I will try to listen with my heart as well has my head to your advice about anger. I know you are right.
Just to clarify--we are in touch with bmother as she is the common-law-wife of dh's brother, the bfather.
We have gone to great lenghts to be in touch with everyone who loves this child except the former fparents. I often think about a Christmas card with letter and picture-but have to consider the advice of the therapist and family counselor. Their advice is that there won't be any long term benefit to ds. But perhaps there is room for kindness-as you said, it does not need to be contact with ds.
I will work out my emotions slowly and steadily, and love and care for our precious lil guy. I will think very hard about your suggestions.
Thank you again-
Last edited by RobinKay : 06-02-2008 at 09:43 PM.
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