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Old 05-30-2008, 09:43 AM
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Thanks, Janey. The relationships between the three of my children are not perfect but they are good.

The older I get, the more aware I become that it is the keeping of secrets that is so destructive in families. Those secrets eat away at the ones in on the secret and can destroy the trust of those not in on the secret. Our children can end up wondering what else we haven't told them!
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Kathy,

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Birth mom to D (10/4/72)
Mom to J(7/6/76) and S (7/26/78)



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but joy comes with the morning." (Psalm 30:5)

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