[krafmatic]

Thanks for everyone's help, both posted and PM'd. The 6 moves in 12 months, neglect, and suspected abuse have left their mark. We have made progress with attachment within the last few months but their are a lot of obvious emotional issues that we are dealing with. I freely admit that I am out of ideas. I've scoured books galore and am still coming up empty.
We are hoping that attachment specialists may be able to help us wioth the neglect/abuse issues (and they are varied) and do so in a way that is acceptable for kids who have suffered through multiple disruptions and your "typical" adoption issues.