I am in shock! Yesterday as we were dropping off my father-in-law at the airport for his return home he was saying goodbye to his newest granddaughter (adopted). I already have issues with the fact that he waited until she was 4 months before he came to see her! I'm sure it would have been different if I would have given birth to her! (ahhh, but that's another story). So in his goodbyes he kissed her and said, "Next time we see you L, you'll be a "real" C(lastname)!" OH MY WORD! I was just floored. I expected him, being a pastor, of all people to be understanding about the whole situation. I am frustrated that he just doesn't get it.
Ok, thanks for letting me vent!