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Thanks for all of your support - I am so glad we found this site. Our FD is getting better. She throws typical tantrums now for an almost 2 year old... (drops to the floor, kicks feet) and we just look at her like we don't understand and then walk away or go about our business (ignore bad behavior, right?). This used to drive her nuts, but she quickly figured out that we don't give in to that nonsense. She still does it, but it lasts 30 seconds or so. My sister in law is a nanny for twins and came by to meet our FD. She said the behaviors between the babies (our BD and our FD) are totally normal - they basically ignore each other now - are nice to each other 10% of the time, and want to push or not share about 10% of the time... but it is mellowing out!
My hubby and I both feel that adding our FD has been like adding 3 more kids! It has been quite an adjustment! I am still working on 'bonding' with her. I thought that would come faster???
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