[jalapeno]

I think you have to do what works and commit to not feeling guilty about it. Your child will feel most secure when you yourself are secure in the choice you have made. I don't really think you can make the wrong decision. Whatever you feel is right will no doubt work out just fine.

We occasionally co-sleep when one of the kiddos is sick or having a particularly rough night. And I do often take naps with my boys. But for the most part I find that everyone sleeps better in their own beds at night. And decent rest makes such a huge difference in how the days go.

If you're co-sleeping does that mean your child will stay up until you go to bed? Will that mean sacrificing time with your spouse?