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Just Peachy~Thank you! I needed a good kick in the butt! I am tired of being a door mat. I don't want my son to grow up thinking it's ok to be a user. That is exactly what they are.
They are not prepared to parent a child. We will NOT adopt again. They had their chance to get it together, but I do worry about this new one. I know it's not my problem, but it is my grandchild. I don't think they will end up parenting this child either. They will pass it off to anybody else after the newness wears off.
My DH is very supportive. He tells me not to worry about what they think. But, as a mother, that is really hard.
I guess I take the weight of the world on my shoulders and I care way too much how they feel.
What about my feelings?
Oceans~Thank you for the encouragement! I really appreciate what you have to say and how you feel! I am not a first mom so I worry that I will do or say the wrong thing!
I don't know how to cross-post. I'll try to figure it out tomorrow. I have 2 little ones who need to go to bed.
BTW~Cymbalta, It does this mom good!
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