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You don't owe him anything...That's for sure. I am trying to be kind but he needs to grow up and become responsible for his family.

You should be angry about the disrespect and putting you in this situation. And quite frankly given their past behavior, you don't have to take any of it IMO. If I were an aparent I would not put up with threats or disputing my motherhood to be honest. The latter may be a counseling issue in some cases but in yours, she probably believes it (from your past posts).

I guess the question is, what are you willing to take because that is probably what they will give you (unfortunately). Is there anyway hubby can lay down the law with his son? Sounds like he needs a good old fashion talking to....