Yes, Art therapy! My wife spoke with the shrink at the hospital. What a jerk. He told her we need to read the book on 'love language'. He went on to 'inform' us our son's 'love language is simply his presence' (and all this time I never knew that)

. Okay doc, read the book, got the t-shirt. Have you any other condscending suggestions while we're still on the phone? Come on! Read the Real Love series too and I'm a believer, but it ain't working here!
No, we can't dissolve our adoption. I hear what you're saying about playing the game and not panicking about the reunification thing. I can play along with that. We're scheduled to see a RAD therapist next week. She's a no bolony woman and will likely help us with whatever documentation we need to get him the help he requires. Respite? Yup it's available on a limited basis. We have a wonderful, supportive family, but he's such a handful my wife and I have felt guilty about asking the family to help out. We are taking a vacation alone though next weekend. Thank God!