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Old 05-19-2008, 04:26 PM
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The suggestions you're getting here are what make adoptions get overturned.

You are not legally able to 'forgive' back support - nor is it legally allowable for you to offer someone money (which is what you'd be doing) to terminate their parental rights.

People have done it and gotten away with it - but many have done it and NOT gotten away with it.

Don't chance it. If you want it legal, follow the law. Don't mention money or child support - you have no legal standing with regards to ordered support - it's between a judge, an attorney and the best interest of the minor child.

I may be coming off as harsh - but I am shocked at the number of posts you've had from people urging you to 1) offer money for the rights to your child and 2) break the law...

Both of which are against the rules to even discuss here on the forums.
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