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I don't know any agencies in Oklahoma, but I can address your other two questions (only from what I've experienced/heard).
Yes, there are agencies that will let you specify the sex of the child you're looking for.
From what I understand, you never know what an expectant parent is looking for when making an adoption plan. They might want a child to be an only child to get more attention, or they might want the child to have an already built-in family with other siblings. It all depends on the EBP and what she/he is looking for.
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2/07 - Started researching agencies
7/13/07 - Signed with agency
8/07 - 10/07 - Adoption put on hold
12/19/07 - Homestudy complete
2/25/08 - Officially waiting
5/29/08 - Matched!! Due 7/08
6/3/08 - Baby F born. Surprise!
6/7/08 - Adoption plan fell through 
7/11/08 - Matched! 20 month old girl and 3 month old boy
7/12/08 - The kids are in our care! Instant Family (just add water)!
3/20/09 - Finalized! We are legally, and in all other ways, a family.
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