The teacher called to see how were are. She said "I talked to "H" parents and we all agreed "H' couldn't have said it. He has a speech problem and it is hard for anyone to understand what he says". Therefore he probably didn't say it.
The kid CAN speech just not very clear. They all believe if anything did happen it was innocent and T started it and that is why he didn't tell. This is when I went off.
HE DID TELL ME!!! I told her T didn't tell her because he knew she wouldn't listen. She went on to say T is always running to her tattleing on someone. I told her T said he knew she would just tell him to go on. Her reply was "well". This is something I have seen her do to other children many times. They even has a tattle box and if the kids want to tattle they are suppose to tell it to the box.
She also said she tires to make sure nothing like this happens but she can't always watch all the kids. Let me see. It happened during nap time. T's mat is about 3ft from her chair. How could she not see him get off his mat and go to the other side of the room. T said the other little boy keep motioning for him and calling his name.
I told her I believed she was judging T based on his past. Yes ,I believe this may have brought up memories. But only AFTER the other kid started it. I said " just because my son had a trumatic past doesn't mean everything is his fault. I will not put up with him being the fall guy."
She said "she was not taking sides but H can be very dificult to understand even she has a hard time knowing what he is saying." Well little kids can usually understand each other even if one can't speak clearly.
She wanted to know if T would be back. No I cleared out his cubby Friday. She said she may come to my house to bring me his pictures. I don't want her anywhere near my house. It would be best if she just mailed it. But then agian I might get a chance to slap her for being so stupid
