|
I don't know the specifics but she was in the home for 18 mos. I believe that he was placed shortly after her and he was ru'd a few weeks before she was removed.
I am on the fence about whether it will bring her peace or just stir things up for her. I really want to help her through this and as strange as it sounds I believe she is feeling the way I feel when one of our kids goes home. When one baby was ru'd after about 5 mos. I thought that the best thing was to never see him again and just move on and let go and let him forget us. His father stopped by a few weeks later and we visited for about an hour. It was the best feeling to see that "our baby" was actually where he was supposed to be and it really helped me to move on. I know it must sound ridiculous to compare our situations but this little sweetheart is very advanced.
She has just started to see a counselor and I will definately get her opinion.
|