I wanted to get your opion on something that happened at preschool. There is a little boy (not my son) who has told other children that he will be their buddy if they touch his pee pee. T told me about it on Friday. I went to talk to the teacher and she acts like T is lying. She said if it was true she would have known about it. (The little boy is very sneaking and makes sure he dosn't get caught). She then said if it did happen it was just normal little boy behavior. (She believes they were just mooning each other not touching).
I am very distrubed by this. After talking to the teacher I went in the class and cleared out T's cubby. He will not be going back.
T said it happened on 2 or 3 different occasions. T has been getting in a lot of trouble at school lately. He went for months rarely even having a time-out. Then in the past 3 weeks the teacher has called me several times to complain about T's behavior. At least one time involved him and this little boy hitting each other. T was made to go to the back of the line and he got "emotional".
This explains why his behavoir has gotten so bad at school. And why he has started talking about his foster home. (he was abused there). T has been tought good touch bad touch. He didn't understand it was wrong if it was a litte kid. Even if it was normal kid stuff T seen it as something else
. I am just sick. I sent him to school and told him his teacher was there to keep him safe and to teach him. Then this happens.
. I will be spending a lot of time reteaching good touch, bad touch.