[feb171983]

That's sickening. You know that it's really her? Could it be a poser/liar tricking you? I've had that happen.

I just don't understand why she would contact you at all if she acts like that. Either she wants a relationship, or she doesn't. Even if she didn't want you to be in touch with her current family, there are certainly better ways to say it than that. From what you've written, I wouldn't even want a relationship with her at all. She sounds needlessly cruel and heartless and shouldn't have contacted you in the first place. Of course, perhaps she's just shocked/scared and worried about what her family will think-- that's certainly no excuse for treating you horridly, but could explain her psychotic state. Or, it would be a liar/poser and not the real person. Or the half brother/whatever could be doing this to 'stake claim' on his mom. Who knows, but it doesn't sound right or good or pleasant. I would request DNA or.. something. I don't even know.

Sorry that this has happened to you. I would triple verify this. DNA, preferably, or something. It sounds 'off' to me, too. I hope that things turn out better for you in the future.