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What do you owe the amom? Well, she raised her daughter, whether in a "good" way or not. Respect her, and don't try to cause trouble or make the poor 18 year old "choose."
I would limit contact with the 18 year old, responding when she contacts you .. but not contacting her. 18 is confusing enough without having her mom and you fighting, and her parents divorcing. You have your own life now, and you have 3 kids. The 18 year old only has divorced parents, and no life (house/job/education/whatever) of her own yet.
It's been 5 weeks. Take it slow. You hardly know each other. Don't get too close too quick, otherwise the only way to drift is to drift apart.
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Born February 1983 in Georgia, ISO birthparents
Searching for birthmother, father, or relatives.
(Don't contact me claiming to be my birthparent unless you have verifiable info or are willing to confirm that we're a match. No more posers.) No commercial solicitations.
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