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Winter, I am so sorry to hear about what happened in your phone conversation. Your birthmother obviously has not dealt with your adoption and contact in a healthy manner. The anger she's displaying toward you is certainly not healthy. I wish I had the answer for you...
It just always bums me out so much when I hear about bmoms causing grief for their relinquished children in reunion. It doesn't have to be that way, and I'm frustrated when I read about a woman who doesn't approach her reunion with openness, honesty, and love. And I just never know what to say to the adoptee who is hurting, other than I'm sorry...
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 ~~Raven~~
What does not kill me, makes me stronger. - Friedrich Nietzsche, Twilight of the Idols, 1888
German philosopher (1844 - 1900)
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