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Originally Posted by mooeylee
Winter, Apparently she knew who your bdad is. But what if she didn't? Would that have changed how you felt about her (if you had a successful reunion)? I have never seen this topic discussed here. Should all "possible" bdads have their lives turned upside down? If so, would that bring peace to the achild? What would it do to the bmom's life, reliving what may not be the proudest period in her life? What if no one knows who the bdad is? Many considerations in this situation.
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I think that people just want answers. I think that it's much better to be honest. If my biomom didn't know who my bdad was I'd appreciate her saying "I'm sorry I don't know." I would love her for the honesty. Yes it might not be a proud period of someones life but that doesn't mean that everyone would be judged for it. Life is so complicated sometimes.