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Watching kids self destruct before us
Over the past couple of years, I have watched my older sons self destruct. It would seem that the older they were when I adopted them, the more likely they were to have problems breaking the cycle. The longer they were with their bio family and in the system relates directly to the level of change they would achieve. J2 actually lives with the family that beat and neglected him.
I hope for the best for you and B.
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Indy
Single father to 10 adopted sons
J1-26, J2-22, M1-21, L-20, M2-20, J3-18, C-17, V-17, S-12, J4-8
"I thought I knew everything there was to know about raising kids - and then I became a parent!"
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