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I think your instincts are right on! You've been extremely gracious and I agree that they can visit the girls in your hometown and start to develop a relationship on your terms. You need to keep your focus on the kids, regardless of the pressure you may feel from Bmom and Bgrandmom. There is no excuse in this day and age with email that the Bmom can't keep contact daily/weekly if it were that important to her. I lost contact with my Bdad when I was young and there are terrible feelings of rejection and anger that develop, but those kids will remember you putting them first, and supporting their feelings. Good Luck!
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