[mdesi]

Lilly's Mom, A big part of me agrees with you on coersion, so I don't think that you are rude. Also, thanks, I never thought about the disability angle, which is a big "duh!" moment for me. A really good friend works in the state's disability office, so I can't believe that I never thought about that. (BTW- We do know that the money is at risk, but that is a great reminder for other people that read this post.) Thanks!