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I think a family needs to do what is right for them. One thought on adopting CC/AA baby instead of full AA:
My adopted son is bi-racial & my friend adopted full AA-
My son "looks" full AA & her son "looks" hispanic (there is no doubt his parents are full AA DNA tests were done). You never know how your child will "look" as they grow. I have my sons birth photo & his skin is 5-10 times darker than at birth. My next adoption WILL be AA only for my son to have a brother the same as him (he is noticing we are different colors) maybe that makes me prejudice against all other races but I will do what is right for MY family & not judge what works for you.
Go with your heart but there is no guarente that you can bond w/ a bi-racial baby because they are 1/2 of your race - there is a chance that they will not have any of the CC features or skin tone as they grow (& forget about summer time - their skin WILL turn black-yet my friends AA son is as light as me) If you open up to full AA or open to any race you can bond w/ your baby at the "human" race level-but don't do anything that can harm a child or you as a parent. Good luck!
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