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I am sorry for what you are going through. These years during college, are a tough time anyway but to deal with all the other things, it must be really difficult for you. I have to say, from an adoptive parent perspective, try to open lines of communication with them and the best ways to do that is to communicate with them through letters and calls to your son and also to have a respectful relationship with the birthmother. You say, until a few months ago, you were having some trouble and now again, you are having some issues. Do the adoptive parents know? For me, I would want what is best for the child, so establishing yourself as a responsible adult who will not be in and out of your sons life as you choose would be the first step. Staying in school, getting some counseling to help you cope with the adoption and your feelings about it which in turn, may help you with college. Please seek some professional help. I wish you lots of luck.
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