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Lisa -
I seem to be finding myself more active on the boards as the time keeps changing. I totally understand the fear and doubt, and my kiddo isn't even 1 yet. I have no words of wisdom, just my thoughts and support. I agree that because you are thinking about these things you are already a better mom.
Take each day at a time. Love on the one you have, dream of the one coming to you, and never lose sight that your son is coming home. I keep reminding myself that what's a few years when I'll have him the rest of his life. Yes we're missing milestones, but working with high schoolers I'm continually reminded that the entire life of a child/teen is full of milestones.
Hang in there, you can do this. And as a very dear person says to me "cry is good" it clears you out and helps you move forward.
take care,
s.
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10/11/2007 - Accepted referral of our son 
10/12/2007 - I-600A filed
10/23/2007 - POA registered in GT 
11/1/2007 - fingerprints
11/27/2007 - dossier to guatemala 
12/?/2007 - entered FC - c'mon I-171
12/5/2007 - I-600A is in Yakima?! 
12/10/2007 - I-171H finally complete (just in time)
12/11/2207 - USE appointment - DNA authorization 
12/24/07 - DNA back - 99.9% YEA
1/18/08 - 1/22/08 - visit trip 
1/23/08 - ummmmm I'm pregnant 
2/25 - 3/1 - visit trip & PA somewhere in here
Late march - finally out of FC (are you kidding me? 4+ months?!?!)
Early April - in PGN
6/6/08- found out BMI is over
6/19 - 6/23 - visit trip #3 (my last one 'til he comes home)
7/23/08 - Out of PGN with a previa
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