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Yes, the going back and forth, and the not knowing can really get to me. With my first fd, who I got at one day old - I wanted nothing more than to adopt her...I felt like she was mine and was meant for me. Eventually I learned to be ok with her going home and saw how much they loved her. But, now 5+ yrs later my fears are realized...her parents have broken up and there is suspected neglect and drug use. Figures! I hate to be like that, but it is so frustrating...she's in this home and yes, they love her but it doesn't mean it's safe. I am ALL for RU if the family has their stuff together, but you can't predict the future....!
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Shamrox
Remember that God knows what He's doing, and trust in Him that you are in this situation for His reasons!
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