my thoughts....
you cant control their actions.....you are an adult now and its another stage of the adoption process....
reunion has been a part of adoption for years and that will never change......you can thank them for raising you up and that this reunion is very important for your healing !!!
from my research on adoption it seems that alot of adoptive parents are not happy with reunion and i dont think that you can change that ......this is something you have to do and you shouldnt feel bad about it......they will have to work through their feelings .....
you arent a little girl anymore and you have every right to have a relationship with your birthmom!!
im excited for you and i sure look forward to a relationship with my daughter one day ( shes almost 18) i cant wait!!!!
you will probably have to keep this reunion between you and your birthmom until you feel that your adoptive parents can handle it....
i hope it all works out for you hon
im excited hearing about reunions ....
