[Kat-L]

Originally Posted by naca

Good luck!! Try not to get tooo excited until she actually does.. Biomom to my FS has said the same thing twice -Once in Feb and then she backed out.. and again just 2wks ago- never did it again..

GOOD LUCK!

Mine, too. My fs's bio mom is torn between relinquishing and working her case plan. She goes back and forth. The first time she mentioned relinquishing so I could adopt, I was absolutely over the moon. It was horrible when I found out she wanted to work her case plan and was given another 6 months. She has been wavering since. She's been having a horrible time getting & keeping a decent job. And it's been 9 months and she still doesn't have a decent place to live. At the rate things are going, she may end up at TPR by the holidays next winter. I don't wish this on her. If she can get herself together, she deserves to have him. For her own well being and safety, I wish she'd get a decent roof over her head. She doesn't have any support from family. She has a disability which makes life even harder. I feel for her. I really do. I'm torn, too. I would love to adopt "Brandon" but I know how much his biomom loves him.

I'm just waiting it out at this point.

Congrats. Be happy-but guarded until she actually signs.