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Originally Posted by JustPeachy
I hear you Alicia! I was afraid to tell my mom and avoided it for a bit, but she found out (bdad's mom spilled the beans as he told her first), and I had to face the music. My mom was upset at first, but after getting the intial shock out, she calmed down. We didn't discuss it anymore that evening, but the next day she calmly sat down with me and we talked about my options (all of them). I was already pretty well set on adoption, having come to that decision on my own, but my mom never made me feel ashamed or bad for being pregnant! I certainly didn't need to be locked in a room, hidden from other family, sent to a home, or forced to birth my child if I didn't want to. I thank God every day my mom allowed me make my own decision and supported me in it.
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I was prettymuch in the same situation, but nobody told my moom, i started to show and she cornered me and asked me and i started crying, so she knew the answer. But i truely feel for girls who have to go through having parents like the girl who's mom wrote in to dear Abby, its tough enough without all that.