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I've thought about it a lot..
The fact that she took the time to seek out a place in her hometown for support (our social worker may or may not have suggested it, I don't know) tells me that she is resourceful enough to seek out support when she needs it. I don't know that she hasn't already found adoption.com anyway. She does seem on the quiet side so I'm not sure if she came here if she would post or not. I have grown in my beliefs, and views, as has my family. I think if she came there would be posts that might upset her, but I know that everyone here can see how much I love and respect her too...so how could she miss that? Overall I think it's my own vulnerability that worries me if she finds this place than anything I've said "about" her. I do consider this "my" place and make myself more open here than other places. I wish I could be selective. There are things here I'm proud off too you know? I wouldn't care if she read those. I wish the archives expired after a certain point too though 
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Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not. ~Dr. Seuss
10-11/07 - We complete home study visits, requirements, and paperwork!
12/17/07 - Our home study is approved by the agency director.
01/27/08 - We get a  for a baby boy who is less than 24 hours old! We submit and get the call 1 hour later that we should get on a  !
01/28/08 - Tyler is in our arms! He is less that 48 hours old
01/31/08 - We go to Court, consents are signed and he's OURS!
02/07/08 - Back home in MA with Ty!
04/03/08 - 1st post placement visit.
05/25/08 - 2nd post placement visit.
07/08 - Final Visit and submit paperwork for finalization! Can't wait!
08/08 - I might be researching our next adoption already Will it be  or  ...stay tuned...
 
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