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Okay, I am coming over from the Guatemala board.
Look at all those folks who accepted referral near the December cut off. They are in hell. They have no idea if their adoption will go on. The government there has shut down for a month all adoptions. These people were told that they would be "grandfather" in.
Look, just be very sure that you can take the stress and the not knowing. Just because you have a referral does not mean that you will bring a child home. I have seen so many folks just not pay attention to the warnings.
If you go forward then do so with the thought that things might not work out.
Best wishes to all those in waiting.
Mary
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