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I actually doubt she could even provide that much, she was really out of touch with my dd. (everyone actually, due to her own emotional issues -R.A.D.-).
The funny thing is, she said after meeting us, that she never really "got" our dd, and after seeing us, she said we'd see what she meant when she says "She's totally you..." she told us to just wait and see...
And she was right, our dd is SO much like us both in every way...and I can see what she meant when she said she recognized us as dd's parents when she met us. I think I have a better handle on things going on in dd's brain than S ever did...and that makes me a bit sad for both of them actually...But I think someday, even if it's only a little bit and not on purpose, just by knowing her, she'll be able to give me some kind of insight.
What's really cool, is this week I've been a bit nostalgic about that first contact, and I've saved ALL of our emails...every one...and this week I went back and read them all again and it was neat to read it with the perspective I have now having lived with my dd.
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