[fritzi]

My three kids came all in one day. We had met our oldest twice in the week before (he was in a residential home). We first laid eyes on his two siblings the day they moved in with us. They had come from a "disrupted" pre-adoptive home. Those folks had weeks of transition with our kiddos and it still didn't work out for them. We had none and a year later we are a family with no regrets.
What it depends on is you. Determine if it seems like a good match and expect alot to be revealed after the move! And commit. One thing I knew, come hell or high water, these kids were staying. That's what really matters.