[Marimar]

I think before you start reading "birthmother letters " and before trying to decide what you want in an adoption parent .

There are questions you need to adress yourself.

Did you really considered all your options.
Is adoption really necessary?
Do you think your baby needs you or do you think you are replacable?
Do you think it will be easy or difficult?
Do you think that once you give birth and adoption happenes you will turn back to your old self?
Do you think that other babys you may have in future will replace this child?
Do you know that there is also posibility of never having a baby again ?
Have you made any plan on parenting before considering adoption? Why do you think it will not work?
Do you feel attached to your child?

Do you think that you can be a good mother?
Or do you think that you can not be a good mother?
Do you have any support system?

I think untill it is too late there are questions that needed to be adressed?
I am just worried for expectant mothers that once they go to a agency they are never asked these questions..


Good luck ..