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It seems to be generally recommended to not adopt out of birth order. If I was in your situation, I'd adopt younger. As to gender, that's really your preference. What about just being open to that and seeing what happens?
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M a t c h e d ! 8/23/07  Cameron is born 11/10/07  FINALIZED!!! 4/3/08 
Cameron is diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome 11/10/07
Life is beautiful, but it's complicated.
We barely make it.
We don't need to understand,
There are miracles, miracles.
Yeah, life is beautiful.
Our hearts, they beat and break. (Vega 4)
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