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I don't care if you're a 140 years old, you'll always be your a mom and a dad's little girl. That will not change now or ever. They love you and that's forever and now they think they have competition for their daughter. They really don't know how to deal with this birthmother thing that their daughter has suddenly thrust upon them. And now their daughter tells them that you have an entire extended family. How can your a mom and a dad compete. They can't because this is more about you and what you want than it is about what anybody else wants. You obviously need this new relation to make you a fuller person, a more complete person. Your a mom and a dad will not like this for they fear loosing their daughter. But take heart for love hurts, and as soon as your a parents see this, and see there is no threat they may not like it still but at least they will accep it and in time may come to understand their daughter a little bit better.
Best of luck to you.
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