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Don't you just love college students! They have an opinion on everything. Its the age I tell you. I swear I was once that girl! Any whoooo I would not even weigh her opinion in the matter. Its really none of her business. You would not consult her if you were swinging from the chandeliers considering having a night of wild and wooly fun either. You will make the appropriate provisions should something happen to you both but again that is for you and your husband to decide and discuss.
I would probably validate her feelings to a degree by just acknowledging them. I would ask her how she feels and I would probably just listen. Then I would ask her to keep her feelings about it to herself and not to discuss it around you like you are not even there.
I think its an example of the self help generation where our kids are being raised to think they can involve themselves in every area of parental life. I think you probably wish she would support you on this but then again you did not have her to consult when you had your other kids either and they are raised and doing just fine.
Good luck with everything. Its got to hurt your feeling a bit. Her position is really quite selfish.
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